Oh the weather outside is frightful . . .

. . . but the fire is so delightful.

Six more days till Christmas, and less than that till friends, family, and great food.

I can't wait!

Getting Hitched

One of the most wonderful people in the WORLD is getting married on New Year's Day.

My beautiful best friend, Summer is marrying the equally wonderful Greg on the first of January. I couldn't be happier for them, or more excited about the big day, as I have the honor of being Summer's Matron of Honor! Summer's sister, Sydna, is the Maid of Honor and Summer picked wonderful bridesmaid's dresses for us. No horrible pea green monstrosities here, just a beautiful, flattering dress that I can't wait to wear! Over the past few weeks, I've been able to be a part of the wedding festivities, including a shower in Franklin Springs and her fun, and funny bachelorette party in Athens.

The bride and her bridesmaid's with Sydna's wonderful bow bouquet.

Me and my Sum.

The bachelorette party at Cali & Tito's in Athens. So much fun!

So, so, so excited for the New Year for so many reasons, but especially for the beginning of a great marriage.

I love you Summer.

Currently Reading . . .

The title of this post is a lie. I've actually finished reading this book and have moved on to it's sequel. As the picture shows, I've recently finished reading Ishmael by Daniel Quinn.

David and his mom have suggested this book to me multiple times, but for some reason I always put it on the back burner and chose something else. I am SO GLAD that I finally made time for this book.

The story is about a modern author who feels disillusioned with the current state of the world. He feels that he and the rest of the world are being lied to, but he doesn't know by whom or what the lie is. One day he sees an ad in the paper:

"Teacher seeks pupil, must have an earnest desire to save the world. Apply in person"

The narrator answers the ad only to find himself in a room with an overwhelmingly large gorilla named Ishmael. Even more surprising than being in a room with a gorilla is when the gorilla begins to communicate telepathically with the narrator.

I know this sounds kind of weird, but stay with me.

The narrator decides to look past the fact that he is able to communicate telepathically with Ishmael (which suggests that the reader must also suspend disbelief) and proceeds to have a series of discourses about the origins of our culture and about what Ishmael describes as the reason things are the way they are.

I'm really glad that I decided to finish this book before doing a post about it. About halfway through the book, once I had delved into Ishmael's explanations of what drives the two cultures described in the book, the Takers and the Leavers, I began to feel as though the world is spiraling out of control and that there is no way to fix it. I felt that the book was telling me that we've passed the point of being able to heal the planet and that this dismal fate is all due to our unwillingness to see ourselves as ONE of God's creations, a helper in taking care of the earth, rather than as the creation that has the right to destroy any other creature or environ, mistaking wants for needs. After finishing the book, I still agree with the second part of the above statement, but Ishmael's final lessons in the novel reveal a possible course to changing the way we view our role in the world. I ultimately left the novel feeling hopeful, yet concerned.

There is so much more to the book than solely what I've mentioned above.

The author provides a wonderful explanation of the agricultural revolution and our culture's movement away from the more sustainable methods of food gathering, such as the hunter/gatherer tradition, and many, many others. He also discusses the correlation between an increase in food production and unrestrained population growth. I had never really thought about those two together in the way that the author presents them.

This novel has changed my perspective on so many ideas. I don't want to misrepresent the ideas in this novel. The above thoughts are merely my interpretation of the author's words. I wanted to share my thoughts on this novel, because I feel that generating dialogs about ways to improve the life of the planet must be one of Quinn's goals in writing the novel.

I have started the sequel to Ishmael called My Ishmael and it is equally as thought provoking as it's mate. Once I get a little more into it, I'll try to remember to do another post.

I hope many, many people will read both books.

Happiness is . . .

Once again, it's been WAY too long since I've done a Happiness is post. The past few months have been both fun and stressful, but as alway, I have a lot to be happy about.

Soooo, Happiness is . . .

1. a family who always takes the time to make you feel like a princess on your birthday.

2. getting over the stress of moving, being sick, and general business by building lots of fires in our fireplace and cuddling.

3. tapioca pudding

4. counting down the days till your best friend gets married. ( just 25 more days, Summer!)

5. the light in December

6. the air in December

7. realizing that instead of sitting in an hour of traffic on my way to work, I can take public transportation and relax, read a book, and cut my commute in half. thanks MARTA!

8. reading books that truly change the way you see the world.

9. laughing until my sides hurt when David got a clothespin stuck in his hair.

10. decorating for Christmas, listening to Christmas music, watching Christmas movies, Christmas parties, Christmas treats, Christmas giving - I. love. Christmas.

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